▶No classism, no racism, no sexism, no transmisogyny, no transphobia, no queerphobia, no kink shaming, no ageism or any other nasty behavior. We organize this party from an intersectional and queer feminist standpoint, to the best of our ability.
▶Do not assume anyone’s pronouns, gender identity or sexuality.
▶Keep your genital preferences and other preferences to yourself and don’t voice them at the party. You can reject people without saying triggering statements.
▶Don’t be rude when rejecting people.
▶Respect people’s Nos and move on! Do not attempt to approach a person again after they have rejected you once.
You must be at least 18 to be able to attend the party.
No pictures allowed. You can only use your phone discreetly away from the places play is happening.
▶We offer some condoms, water-based lubes, gloves, and other play party supplies. Bring your own favorite lube if you have any, no amount of lube is ever enough!!
▶Ask for consent and respect each other’s boundaries
▶Negotiate and communicate comprehensively before you start playing.
▶If you don’t feel like playing, or if you come alone and don’t vibe with anyone, you can just socialize or watch. There is no pressure on anyone to do anything.
If you are extremely intoxicated or if you show any non-consensual and unaccepted behavior, you will be thrown out.
▶There will be an awareness team wearing green vests so you can find them easily, don’t feel shy to reach out to them about anything bothering you or if you needed help with anything.
▶Don’t get too close to other people’s play. Don’t talk loud close to where people are playing. Give people some space.
▶Do not disturb sessions. Do not talk to people involved in a session.
▶Do not comment on a play/session, even with compliments or laughter.
▶Do not masturbate while watching without prior agreement.
▶If you see someone playing who is part of the Black Planet crew, they are off duty. Do not approach them with questions or feedback.
Party safe word is “Red”, If “Red” is called, and the scene is not stopped everyone has a responsibility to intervene. The awareness team has the right to stop a scene at any point, if they find it necessary.
▶In case you are playing with blood: put something over open wounds after the scene.
▶Keep blood play away from the bar area. Needles, scalpels and staples must be put into sharps-containers after use.
▶After the party: please be discreet about what went on. Don’t mention names or personal descriptors of people if not approved in advance. What happens at Batshit, Stays at Batshit!
▶Wax play, scat and roman/vomit are not permitted due to practical reasons. We do not kink shame ANYTHING however race play and similar degrading acts that revolve around inherent identities are not permitted since it might be triggering for some participants, If you have questions regarding your specific kinks being allowed, reach out to us through our email.
NO KINKSHAMING ALLOWED! We take this super seriously, you are coming to a kinky party for Satan’s sake! No form of kink shaming and no buts and ifs will be accepted! We want our participants to play freely and talk about their kinks freely without facing ANY judgement.
▶CNC is allowed as long as you don’t use the party’s safe word, “Red”. please keep CNC as private as possible so others won’t get concerned
▶Our space is little friendly, bring your plushies if you want to!