Lilith pre-party + not your typical speed dating

built for the shy, the neurodivergent, and anyone who’s ever sat across from a stranger and gone blank!

(FREE RSVP Mandatory below!)

The pre-party starts at 19 and ends at 21:30 when we will start going to the venue for Club Lilith together! FIELDTRIP!

And who knows maybe you are walking there with a new crush WHAT COULD BE COOLER THAN THAT?

The doors close at 20. the game starts at 20:15

Watch this video to see how the speed dating works:

here’s how it actually works. you scan a QR code at the event, pick the interests that describe you, music, hobbies, how you date, what you’re into. set your filters: age range, monogamous, non-monogamous, open to both. the app reads the room and recommends who to meet, ranked by how compatible you are. You’ll get a list of recommendations where you are both recommended to each other. no second-guessing whether to approach them. no wondering if you’re reading the signals right. if they are on your recommended list, You are on their recommended list too. go say hi!

no chair rotation. no 3 minutes rounds. no sitting across from someone you have nothing in common with, waiting for a bell to free you. no host calling time. no performing on demand. you talk for as long as the conversation holds. you move on when you want to.

after the event, if you both marked each other as interested, your contact info gets shared. no awkward “can i get your number” moment. no shooting your shot in the moment and be scared of rejection!

built for sapphics who clocked traditional speed dating as a nightmare scenario, neurodivergent, shy, introverted, anyone who needs structure that isn’t “be charming for ninety seconds or fail.”

We use this digital solution to make flirting in person easier. best of both world!

Ring Sidenkällaren when you get to the door!