Lesbian & Sapphic Clubs in Stockholm – A 2025 Guide

A survival guide for women and non-binary people who love women

Okay so you’re in Stockholm, maybe visiting, maybe a local who is just tired of guessing if that one other girl at the bar is also into girls and tired of swiping hard left on girls looking for a third with their boyfriend on dating sites and you desperately wanna know where do all the sapphics go when they wanna dance / make out / stare longingly across the room for hours?

Here’s your guide.

Unfortunately there aren’t any permenant sapphic or lesbian clubs in Stockholm, there are only club nights happening irregularly. Here are the three ones that have been going very solid and are popular:

1. Lilith Club (our own night… so yeah, obviously the best)

Listen. We’re biased. This is our baby. Lilith is a sapphic club night for all sapphics — meaning women and non-binary people who loves women. Nobody’s centered more than anyone else — it’s for all of us.

→ Gender assigned at birth? Don’t care.
→ Exact label? Don’t care.
→ As long as loving women is part of your deal — you’re home.

Lilith has:

• a darkroom (yes)

• a social lounge (yes)

• music that goes from disco to synthpop, eurodance, trance, house, and modern girly pop (yes yes yes)

The vibe is very working class, alternative, gritty, cool, edgy — not posh, not polished, just full of hot sapphics being feral together. 

Usually happens every ~2 months at Hus7 or sometimes Kollektivet Livet. Sometimes we do smaller pub nights too.

→ Follow: @klubb.lilith
→ Check upcoming events: blackplanet.se/events

PS: We also run other club nights that aren’t sapphic-only but are absolutely swarming with sapphics anyway — check our event calendar →  blackplanet.se/events

2. Moxy

The classic. Stockholm’s long-running lesbian club night. Moxy is for the girlies who wanna dress up, drink prosecco and dance to mainstream hits.

→ Usually happens at Nalen, a historic venue right in the city center.
→ The music is mostly top 40, r’n’b, radio pop — but sometimes they switch it up so always check their Insta.

Compared to Lilith — definitely more posh, more expensive, more heels & blazers vibes. But super loved by many!

→ Follow: @moxysthlm

3. Hera

For the r’n’b & hip hop lovers. Hera is a club for the sapphic & queer fam that wants to vibe to afrobeats, dancehall, hip hop and r’n’b all night.

It’s a very diverse crowd, more on the expensive side.

→ Follow: @he.ra____

Not gonna lie… there aren’t many big sapphic-specific club spaces in Stockholm.

It’s a small scene. It comes and goes. But right now these are the three main players you’ll probably wanna know about.

Here’s the quick comparison so you don’t have to DM your one gay Stockholm friend at 2AM asking “ok but which one should I go to??”

TL;DR

• Want darkroom and flirty chaos, alternative sapphics & music that’s fun but not hell? → Lilith

• Want to dress up fancy, party like it’s a classic lesbian night out? → Moxy

• Want hip hop, RnB, hottest outfits, and a very diverse scene? → Hera

Where to stalk them for dates & info:

• Lilith → @klubb.lilith or blackplanet.se/events

• Moxy → @moxysthlm

• Hera → @he.ra___